L.A. Therapist specializing in High-Conflict Divorce, Intimate Partner Betrayal, and Love Addiction.









Hello, I'm Virginia Gilbert,
Marriage and Family Therapist
While I’m trained to provide therapy to individuals, couples, and families, I specialize in the treatment of high-conflict divorce, intimate partner betrayal, and love addiction.
If your divorce is making your life unmanageable, I can give you strategies to help you manage a challenging ex. If you’re impacted by your partner’s sexual compulsivity, I can educate you about problematic sexual behaviors and help you decide whether to stay or go.
Finally, if you can’t seem to stop getting into chaotic romantic relationships, I can help you improve your relationship with yourself so you can attract a meaningful, healthy partnership.

You can't change your ex, but you can improve the quality of your life by changing the way you react and relate to your ex. My book helps you understand how high-conflict divorce develops, gives you strategies to manage it, and, most important, offers you a plan to turn the worst thing that happened to you into an opportunity for personal growth.